I have been thinking about this one for a while and of course I’m not going to put myself out there to be shot at by saying I’m the Guru of chat up. That’s simply not the case.
I do know that there are some things that work and some that don’t some of which can be controlled by you and others that can’t. There are actually some fundamental rules to the process which when I point them out you might not accept, but I would say try it and see what happens.
What you won’t find here is any Psycho-babble about how women’s brains work, because let’s be honest, as a man, I have no clue what goes on in there! I can only give you pointers and advice and encouragement and the rest will be up to you.